Michele McGill Family Law & Civil Litigation

As a divorce attorney in Nashville, Tennessee, I’ve seen firsthand how difficult the process can become when one spouse exhibits high-conflict behaviors. While every divorce comes with its share of emotional and legal challenges, dealing with a spouse who constantly creates conflict can make things feel exponentially harder. I’ve worked with many clients who, after years of enduring narcissistic tendencies, controlling behavior, or outright bullying from their spouse, come to me feeling exhausted and unsure of how to move forward. One of the first things I tell them is this: you cannot control the behavior of your spouse, but you can absolutely control how you respond. Recognizing High-Conflict Personalities: In my experience, the most common high-conflict personality types that appear in divorce cases include: • The Narcissist: This person thrives on being the center of attention and often manipulates situations to maintain control and power. Narcissists are skilled at making thei...

Navigating Divorce After 50 with Grace and Financial Confidence Divorce after 50 has become more common in recent years, and while it’s often referred to as “Gray Divorce,” I prefer to call it "Golden Divorce". This term better reflects the wisdom, experience, and new beginnings that many individuals bring to this stage of life. Divorce at this time can come with complex emotional and financial challenges, but it can also offer the opportunity to craft a future full of potential. For those in the Nashville and Franklin area, divorce after 50 requires special attention to issues like retirement, health care, and long-term financial security. My goal is to help clients navigate these complexities with confidence and a clear plan for the future. What Makes a Golden Divorce Unique? 1. Retirement and Social Security Considerations When divorcing later in life, retirement accounts often represent a significant portion of the marital assets. Whether it’s a 401(k), IRA, or pensio...